Dealing with him blocking you on social Media:

Dealing with him blocking you on social Media:

Social media (Whatsup, Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat, Viber, Instagram…etc) whatever social media platform you are on, it has taken a life of its own and many people experience a relationship with their significant other just as much via certain online platforms as they do in the real world. You profess your love to the one you deeply care for through status updates, through pictures to immortalize certain moments or showcase what your relationship is all about to your friends. You have shared everything on these platforms, nowadays people no longer have real dates, they finish everything on whatsup, by the time they meet for a real date, they already know everything about each other. So being blocked is a big deal for most people. In this piece, I have tried to explain why you’re getting blocked and how you can get him to unblock you. One thing I will emphasize though is that don’t sweat it. Just focus on you and your own personal growth and good things will soon happen!

Your ex is blocking you because he is seeking space, the least you can do is respect that;

For him to prove to you that he is no longer interested in whatever you have to say because it will not matter to him anyways, he will go out of his way to make sure he disassociates himself from you and your previous relationship.  It could also be his simple way of reassuring you that you are now single. Perhaps in a way he is also trying to convince himself that he has moved on. If your ex decides not to speak to you anymore following a breakup, he isn’t answering your calls or messages, let him be, you should actually be happy that you have no access to his social media, it’s better not knowing what is happening in his life, it will hurt but for a short while but also trust me it can be also blessing whether you are trying to move on or even if you want to get back together!

Your ex blocking you doesn’t mean that he no longer has feelings for you it simply means that he needs space! Truthfully, I know and we all know this, you don’t just stop loving someone, you can get frustrated or annoyed, be dissatisfied with how things evolve but it doesn’t mean that you stop caring for them. So just do not panic, frustrated and say hateful things to him that you will regret later, be the mature one in the situation, he may be frustrated now and could even say some mean things to you but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t love you anymore; just be patient with him, how he feels will quickly evolve in your favor if you do the rights things!

Every situation is unique, I do not know what happened between the two of you that led to the blocking just take a minute and look in the mirror and be honest with yourself try to figure out what led you to get blocked. May be you cheated him, blew up his phone with a million calls and texts, involved third parties in your situation, you alone knows what happened. But what I know is that if someone that at one point loved and cared for you decides to go to the extreme ends like these just to ensure you do not reach him, it usually means that he is badly hurt. You’ve caused this man great pain too and it is best to lay low for a while and to let time heal some of the wounds for both parties. No matter what, taking a step back can’t hurt at this point because you clearly went too far in one way or another!

Although it may hurt, but behave and work on yourself, he could unblock you if you do the following:

He may have blocked you but he may probably still be checking your profile or social activity, even if he blocked you! So don’t block him back out of anger because you can leverage your social media account to make your ex unblock you quicker.

Showcase your change and all the fun things that you are doing; don’t go over the top though by showing him that you are not going to wait for him forever or that you won’t let yourself feel depressed, you were in the wrong in the first place, just do not make it worse.

Don’t hesitate to do things that you always dreamed of doing; again stretch your comfort zone and be social. Then make sure you relay this on your social platforms while branding yourself in exactly the way that you are trying to evolve into!

I have said this and will say it again, Look good gal, some of you are not actually ugly your clothes are. So don’t hesitate to change your look or hairstyle and buy a few new pieces that make you feel good about yourself. Gym, join a dance class, an aerobics class, work on a revenge body.

Lastly, change your profile photo to a high quality high resolution image of you smiling, being happy or doing something that shows that you are now at peace with yourself and simply happy. If you have to do a photo shoot for this, go gal, u could use a friend with a better camera than yours, just look your best.

So sweeties, stop chasing your ex and really start to implement that advice above he will unblock you way sooner than you think! He will be curious; at the very least, he will be intrigued and want to know how you were able to bounce back so quickly…and they will unblock you to find out!