When he asks you to delete his number and not to talk to him again: Do just that!

When he asks you to delete his number and not to talk to him again: Do just that!

Yah, Ladies, I know breakups suck, they are very painful, hard…etc it’s never easy going through one and I would never wish this on any one, not even my worst enemy, not that I have any, I do not.  Relationships nowadays are not easy and as a couple disagreements will arise, its only normal for any healthy relationship, but instead of you two working through it, he makes his decision to leave you and even goes as far as telling you to delete his number and never talk to him again, this can be really tough but he has been very clear with you, do as he asked. His intentions are pretty clear, he wants nothing to do with you, and he doesn’t want you to contact him ever again, whether he has said it out of anger or not, just do as he asks.

I have said this before in my previous blog post on http://winniekasadha.blogspot.ug/2016/04/if-you-love-him-let-him-go.html there is nothing as worse as a woman running around chasing a man that doesn’t want her. Calling him non-stop a million times, sending him desperate texts, riding by his place, hangouts…etc will only make matters worse, they will only make him resent you even more. If he is a stubborn man like most men, however much you call and text, he will still not answer unless he wants to and is ready to talk to you, just respect his decision.

Sweetie, I know this can be tough but, I will tell you this, do as he asked, give him space and let him move on, he will contact you if he feels there is value in pursuing the relationship further but it won’t happen if you constantly try to talk to him. And again, do not sit around waiting for him, you will be disappointed if he doesn’t make contact, so sister gal, go out live and love, life is short.

From my own experience I have learnt that most of these things just require discipline, making a decision and sticking to it, however hard it may be, do not break it, the decision here is not to contact him, yeah I know you think his the love of your life, you’re probably so depressed, so confused, so hurt, very insecure and attached to this man but take him out of your system, block him from your mind and accept that it is really over...

Sweetie, just don’t freeze your life, just make sure you go out every weekend, have lots of fun. Have a busy social calendar and if this your Mr. love of your life realizes you have become more independent, not needy or insecure anymore, you’re the happy and sweet girl he once loved and cared for, trust me, if he really loved you and wanted a serious relationship with you, he will come back.

Good Luck!