So many of you have a long history of dating junks, those guys that say all the right things to you just to get you into their beds and then leave you heart broken. I like to refer to them as them counterfeits. Well Ladies, I hate to break it to you but most of you are actually like those guys, I mean we seek the level we are at... Your latest steady date is a reflection of your own heart. If you find only junks attracted to you, it's time to investigate. What keeps you from catching the eye of a Boaz, Joseph or David? You can't attract what you aren't yourself. And I will save you the head scratching, your not a lady of virtue.
Your so concerned about how you look, wearing shirts that show off your breasts, and while you may think its the trend, guess what sister girl, you will attract boys, to be more specific, you will attract the kind of boys that like to look down girls' shirts. If you want to date a guy who likes to look at other girls' breasts and chase skirts, then great job, keep it up. If you don't want to date a guy who ogles at breasts of other women, then maybe you should stop offering your own breasts up for the ogling. All attention is not equal. You think you want attention, but you don't. You want respect. All attention is not equal...
Remember what King Solomon said in Proverbs 31:30 about the external emphasis of charm and glitz? "Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting: but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised." There are many women who fear pimples, wrinkles, flabby thighs and crow's feet, but very few who really fear the Lord. With which are you attractive to men: the snares of Proverbs 5, 6 and 7 or by the beauty of 1 Peter 3:4?
There are two ways to get a man to notice you. the first way to get his attention is how you look on the outside, But this is a snare look because looks don't last. They are superficial. The second way is being a Lady of virtue, she is noticed because she has gained admiration for her godly character.
Below are the differences between these two kinds of women and I challenge you to work towards becoming a Lady of virtue, you will attract the right men, the godly men and not the junks that have have been attracted to you .
Lady of Virtue
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Body Beautiful
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A person to whom all people are attracted
(friendly)
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Nice only to those who can help your dating status.
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Seeking God first
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Seeking a relationship first
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Interesting with goals for yourself personally
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“Shopping” known to be looking for a husband
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Becoming the lady God wants you to be
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Waiting to be found
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Realistic
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Living in romantic fantasy
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Truly interested in the person you date and his best interests
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Looking for your future in the relationship
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One who is Spiritually challenging
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Exciting sensuality
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One who communicates verbally
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A wallflower
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Committed to trusting God
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Clinging to a guy
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Prepared for lasting friendships
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Playing games
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Open to other friendships
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Possessive
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Secure in the Lord
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Insecure without a “dream man”
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Building positive qualities in yourself
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Wanting him now
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Trusting God
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Trusting in schemes and plans to catch a man
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Patiently waiting
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On the hunt
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So my dear ladies, if you are not a lady of virtue, allow the Holy Spirit to use you during this season of singleness to create in you a priceless pearl of virtuous character.
Am praying for you and God is crazy about you
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