Why women Leave men they Love

Why women Leave men they Love

No woman wants to leave the man she loves. Of course, she will feel terrible about it. It takes courage and a resolute spirit to walk away. Commitment comes at a price. A woman would love it if her man stuck around, did not cause her pain and was always the ideal man she loved in the first place. For a woman to continue stay in a relationship, the man has to learn how to value the woman and make her an important part of his world. Here are some reasons why women leave the men they love:

Women Leave…

Because their man isn’t present:  As women, we tolerate a lot, it’s in our nature to do so, but all we want is a man to be physically present,  a man that is interested in spending time with us, we do not even care about the place, just be present.  Some men find time for the boys, video games, a sport…etc and always imagine we shall be there waiting. No boys, we shall not, we want partners that will work alongside us and also appreciate our presence. Ladies, have you dated a workaholic, well I have, in the past, over 3 years ago, but for some reason this man always found time for us, I would never give this man a second look if I found him on the street today but I respect that he always made time for me even with his busy schedule, I would never even have to ask him, he was just always there, but these men do not seem to exist anymore.

Boys, we do not need you to take care of us financially, yes, yes, yes boys, you heard that right, we do not need your money or your gifts, we want you to spend time with us. What a woman wants is for you to feel her, she doesn’t want absent-minded quick release sex. Just touch her with your full attention... But you’re busy. You don’t have time for this. How about five minutes? Five minutes each day. Can you commit to that? I’m not talking about extravagant dinners or nights out (although those are fine too). I’m talking about five minutes every day to be completely present to the woman you share your life with. To be completely open – hearing and seeing without judgment. Will you do that? I bet once you start, once you get a taste, you won’t want to stop.

Because they feel alone: There are so women that are in love but they do feel alone, every woman need to feel that she matters and if her man isn’t there to support her then there is no need to continue that relationship. When in a relationship women believe that the man is their entire world, yet men tend to detach quickly when they get comfortable. So boys, you should stop doing this, if you do not, we shall keep leaving you however much we love you. I am sure you all agree that it’s better to let some you love go, and be alone, than to love someone who makes you feel lonely. There are things we all can do to influence our partner to love us more and better, but ultimately we cannot control whether or not they love us. However, we can control whether or not we accept being in a relationship where we're in love but feeling alone. And that choice is the most important one of all, because we all deserve to feel loved, not alone.

Because of midlife awakening: this hits all of us differently, some of these gals have dated you boys up to 2-5 years and you still not sure you want to spend the rest of your life with her, there is still zero chance of a commitment, some of you are even cohabiting, you getting the chaw each time you want it free of charge, she is even doing your laundry, cooking for you.., etc. I do not know about you ladies but me as Winnie, I will never play wife to boyfriends, probably my very busy, but always available for me, ex can support me on this one, he had to hire an everyday maid/housekeeper to do the chores, I just couldn’t and ladies, you shouldn’t either.

So boys, when the awakening hits her, that moment when she becomes suddenly aware of what she deserves and wants, she will pack up and leave you. Boys, that gal is in her production age, probably most of her friends are married and have babies, she’s now playing auntie to these her friends’ children. But guess what, she may not say it but she also wants marriage and children, yes she is ready BUT are you? she doesn’t want to waste her time anymore, stop making her take those morning after pills, some of you have you even made these girls take up family planning and you do not even intend to marry them, why are you spoiling someone else’s wife? Are you that gal, sweetie, it’s time for you to leave him, actually run, do not keep waiting on him, he isn’t worth the wait, there is someone out there waiting for you.

Because they no longer feel sexy: Men are sexual creatures when they want sex they are ready. A woman needs intimacy, foreplay, and the feeling of being completely desired by her man. Routine is the kiss of death. A woman wants spontaneity. She craves to be romanced. Women live in their heads. Therefore, when a man is only being stimulated by porn or other women or just wants to have a release, a woman will be completely turned off. There is a moment in a woman’s life when she realizes that if her man doesn’t desire her, or makes her feel special (in and out of bed) then it’s time to move on.

So men, I guess you now know why we decide to walk away. A real woman doesn't want your money, your car and gifts, I personally grew up with everything I want and I have what i need and want, like most girls out there. So the right woman like myself, all I want is your time, effort, passion, honesty, loyalty, smile and you choosing me as your priority. 

So are you willing to work on these? That's really up to you. Just stop asking yourselves why we leave you despite the fact that we love you. I have done my best to give you those reasons above.