Things you should never do after a breakup

Things You Should Never do After a Break-up:

Breakups suck, sometimes, the aftermath can be even more confusing and emotionally draining. It's totally normal to make some questionable decisions post-split—you're feeling lost, hurt, and less confident than usual. So to help you navigate this tricky breakup world, here are some of the common landmines you'll want to avoid. 

Blow up his phone with several calls and texts per day. This is kind of like stalking, so, if he isn’t calling you back, hang up the phone. Also, you have better things to do! 

Eat your feelings. Yes, It’s good to eat good food after that break but picking up a bucket of KFC chicken or Pizza every after work and making it your daily every night thing is not healthy. Plus, it won’t make you feel better—just bloated. 

Drink your feelings.  Have been here before and trust me, no man or situation is worth you drinking your life away. You will only feel worse when you sober up, and again, a broken heart and a hangover just do not mix.

Sleep with the next guy who buys you a drink. There is nothing as risky as random hookups. I do not think any of us would want to wake up next to the stranger you met at the bar. You are worth more than this my dear sister and way too hot for that random guy.

Reconnect with other exes. Girl, you aren’t with them for a reason. Remember that time he forgot your birthday? So do not do it. It’s natural to crave something comfy right now but your ex, Girl, you can do better by urself.

Obsess over his new girlfriend. Sweetie it’s not her fault. And the best way to get over a split the healthy way is to take some responsibility for whatever part you played in the breakup, not blame it on the new gal in his life

Take it public. It’s one thing to vent to your buddies, but publicly ranting isn’t cute, not even social media, it’s the reason some of you your relationships are struggling.

Jump into another relationship right away. Everyone copes in different ways, but give yourself a little time to heal. It’s important to recognize if you’ve fully moved on first. After all, you wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with someone who’s still hung up on their ex, would you? 

Try to get back at him. Do not, I repeat, Do not, Revenge never really works. Your relationship failed to work, do not hurt yourself even more, Just move on.

Take some time for yourself. Staying busy with tons of plans can be great, but remember to give yourself time to heal and process the breakup. Remember you are pretty fantastic, with or without a boyfriend, and now is the time to think of what you want.