Fixing a wounded relationship:

I have learned that if you have tried everything you can to heal that wounded relationship, apologized and reaching out but the other person doesn't respond, still giving you the silent treatment.  It can mean they have already given up on you and the relationship. But it could also mean that may be, they are not ready. What you can do is to respect their journey, they may not be ready for healing – and that’s okay. Know that your ability to reach out is enough and also remember your peace and freedom does not depend on their willingness to partake. Forgive them and bear in mind that “To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.”

Through my own experience, have also learned that when it comes to creating a loving, healthy bond out of what may now be only a source of stress and regret, there’s one thing you must have with you the whole time. And it is also the one thing I know for sure that will never run out: the fullness of God in your heart.

If you have experienced a wounded relationship, there is still hope for you. God is still in the business of redeeming and restoring relationships. Surrender it to Him. Pray, Pray and Pray some more.

Pray to God to heal your relationship with that other person. Because however much you try to do it on your own, you can barely do anything about it.  And I hate to break it to you but it’s only God that knows “what to fix” you don’t. So take it to him in prayer, He will wipe those tears, the bad memories and the bitterness you could have buried in your heart.

There are as many great reasons to regularly pray to God, one of the greatest is the good it can do you as you struggle to heal a broken relationship.

The only way you heal a broken heart is by giving out of the fullness of your heart, and as you give, give and keep giving, make sure you never run out of the fullness of God’s love.

And also again, the key to successfully healing the wounds between you and another is to give. Give your love. Give your peace. Give your generosity of spirit. Give your heart. Give, above all, your forgiveness.

We say or hear that it’s better to give than to receive all the time. But how often do we actually give rather than receive? How often do we really experience just how true that saying is?

Well, if you’re trying to bond with someone you’ve broken with, it’s time you got back in touch with the truth about the real relationship between giving and receiving. Giving and giving all the love you have to another person isn’t the only way you can ever heal with them. It’s also the only way God can keep giving and giving all of His love to you.

If you keep giving, you are eventually going to get depleted? But as God’s Children the only way we can make sure we never run out of the love we keep on giving is to turn and run to God and get more. Only He can keep us in full supply of all the love we need if we’re going to keep giving as much as we can. 

Also Think about this

Genesis 41:51

• Joseph named his firstborn Manasseh and said “It is because GOD has made me forget all my trouble and all my father’s household”

Genesis 41:52

• The second son he named Ephraim and said, “It is because GOD has made me fruitful in the land of my suffering.”

What GOD did to Joseph (thousands of years ago) GOD can do the same for you! He can make you forget all your toil and bitterness; and bless you with your own “house of affliction”

Only God can  wipe out those hurting memories that  your human mind has tried to erase BUT failed. 

Matthew 6:32 "For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them"

Matthew 6:33 "But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well"

John 15:7 “If you abide in Me (Jesus) and My words abide in you, you will ask what you desire and it shall be done for you”

Good Luck and God is crazy about you.