My Beauty of falling in love with a good man that made me a better woman:

When it comes to relationships, we all want a good man, unfortunately, many of us have to go through a number of not-so-good men before we find those that are worth it. I am glad I found that man. Though I have to admit, like most girls I had to kiss a lot of frogs before I met my prince. It’s sad, some of you are still are, but just hang in there ladies, your season of kissing frogs could be over really soon with a little patience and waiting on the Lord.

There is so much I can write about this wonderful man but below I will share just a quarter of my beauty of falling in love with a good man that that has made me a better woman today;

He motivates me to do better: when you find the right man, he will push you to be a better person without directly putting any pressure on you. He has been my motivation to rise above my limitations. I had given up in so many areas of my life, I had given up and settled for less than I deserve, but he supports me and has got me back on track.

He is profoundly interesting: most people including myself often think scientists are not fun, well well I must admit, they are…at least this one is…It’s great having someone you can lie across the couch with and never run out of things to say. This man even with his great sense of humor, he is not the kind that talks a lot, I talk more than he does, am  a woman, its only normal for us to talk more than the men but what I love is that when he the possesses worldly knowledge that's enlightening and captivating at the same time.

He was my first on many levels: when I met him, i was completely attracted to him, that was a first, was never attracted to men in the past, at some point I thought I was gay, he was also the first christian guy I was dating, most of my friends do not like church boys, but I am a christian and I was done dating non-Christians (2 Corinthians 6:14-15)  even though the combination of christian guy and scientist screamed boring, he proved me wrong. I also didn't think the church had any cute guys but he is and I am totally attracted to him, and he is not just cute he has the best smile and a beautiful soul. Things do happen but my desire is to be able to spend the rest of my life with this beautiful soul.

He has made me a patient woman: I am a first born child, have always had all the attention directed at me which also means, I get everything I want without having to wait, have always demanded to have things there and then, I always want immediate results. This good man has taught me that things do not always have immediate results. I often look at how he handles issues in a very calm, relaxed & collected manner and I am often left in owe, this is the best thing I love about him and want to be more like him every single day.

He shuts me down: I have always had my way with all the guys have dated, it was always on my terms, I was more like the leader in my past relationships. I thought I would do the same with him. And even with my strong personality, he says no to me and that makes me love him, I was like finally a man stands up to me and says no to me, it was my first...he never lets me manipulate him like I did with the other men, he is a LEADER, that's the beauty of this man.  

He makes me feel fulfilled:  the beauty of falling in love with a man that inspires you is that you won't feel like you're missing out on something or that anything greater can come along. Everything you need is right in front of you. Yes I never thought I would but he made me realize that I have all the capabilities of finding self-satisfaction.

He has led me more to God: there is nothing as good as being with a man that fears the Lord, a man that loves Jesus, I mean one that really loves Jesus and wants to live for Him, one of the greatest things any man can do for a woman is to lead her closer to God than to himself. Has that man in your life than this. He has done this for me and I love him for it. So Ladies, if your answer to the previous question is a no, run!!! Because a man that doesn’t have a relationship with God will not know how to have a relationship with you…if he doesn’t know God, he doesn’t know real love.

He has influenced my life in ways no one has in the past 29 years of my life and because of so much more and the above I respect him, Ladies, do not waste your time on a man you do not respect.