A common self-deception among all women young or older is their power to change the guy she has a crush on, admires from afar, or has begun to date. It breaks my heart when I hear a faith-spirit filled Christian gal trying to explain her reasoning to dating non believers when scripture is very clear “Do not try to work together as equals with unbelievers, for it cannot be done, how can right and wrong be partners? How can light and darkness live together? 2 Corithians 6:14. They often say, but he is a good guy, and most Christian gals are settling for these “good guy” simply because they want to be married and are tired of waiting on God for a godly man.
But my sister do you know what your Mr. Good guy will not understand, your decision to stay pure in this sex-saturated society we live in. He will begin to kiss and touch you a little and the little will become more involved with time, and gradually your relationship will become more physical until you one day give in thinking that the sex will make him love you more & also make him commit but like the saying goes: “Men play at love to get sex, and women play at sex to get love” after this, the way he looks at you and everything will change that one act of affection will destroy your relationship and the treasure you had vowed to keep for your future husband. My heart has broken for countless single Christian gals who have played at sex to get love, but instead of love they are disposed off like a used paper cup.
Considering the consequences, physical or emotional that sex before marriage causes, I would say, wait, however hard it gets. God designed us women different, do not let Mr. Good guy rip you apart, a woman cannot make love to a man and remain emotionally untouched, no matter how hard you try, so sweetie, do not give yourself away to a man who cannot care for your heart. And if you have already given it away, do not be kept from beginning new again. Accept God’s forgiveness and refuse to feel like damaged goods. God has better in store for you. You are a treasure, no matter what the enemy whispers to you, do not loose sight of the value of what you have or of who you are. Don't allow the flickering pleasures of an evening of “making love” destroy a lifetime of “lasting love”
One thing I do know that brings complete freedom is that you must forgive and forget the sins of those who sinned against you. Jesus is very clear in Matthew 5:21-24 about what to do with anger toward a brother. But how do you do it? First choose to forgive your brother with your heart, and then God will help you work through the emotions that may remain. You will not be free of the hurt if you habor bitterness. A quick way to ruin a beautiful complexion is to hold on to an unforgiving, bitter attitude.
Am praying for you and God is crazy about you.
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